Why do I get so upset about bad decisions made by the people I love? I think I just obsess about what I could have done differently myself to make a positive influence on what they do in their lives. Once again I’m reminded that I am only in control of ME! You’re only in control of YOU. Just ’cause we love them doesn’t mean we’ll always be happy with their choices. All we can do is pray for them and be there if they need us.